✨ Finding My Way Back: Weight Loss, Spinal Surgery & Reclaiming My Health
After a spinal surgery and unexpected weight gain in my 40s, I found my way back through personalized GLP-1 treatment and intentional healing. This isn’t just a weight loss story — it’s a journey of reclaiming identity, power, and peace. #WatchMeRise
By Deryl Richardson | #WatchMeRise
When I turned 40, I didn’t expect my body to betray me. But that’s exactly how it felt.
I started gaining weight despite doing all the “right” things. My metabolism slowed. My energy dipped. Many parts of my body were not working the way they used to.
And then, the bombshell happened:
Progressive cervical myeloradiculopathy — a rare degenerative condition in my spine that was quietly compressing my spinal cord. It forced me into ACDF surgery and completely shut down my ability to stay active. I went from a gym routine to barely being able to stand. From full speed to full stop. I had been experiencing pain a year before that completely slowed my gym workouts down, but the ACDF surgery stopped me dead in my tracks.
The weight gain wasn't just about aesthetics. It became a symbol of everything I felt I was losing — control, strength, momentum, identity.
Part of my confidence is being proud of how I look in the mirror and how I present myself to the world. I didn’t want to lose that.
So I had a choice:
Let it consume me…
Or find my way back.
That’s when I found Hims.
Through their personalized GLP-1 treatment plan, I was able to start losing weight — even while recovering from surgery. Their team took my full health story into account, adjusting my dosage as my needs evolved and working with my body instead of against it.
This wasn’t a quick fix. This was a tailored path forward — one rooted in science, care, and consistency. Read the full Hims & Hers article here.
Today, I’m ten weeks post-op.
Stronger. Lighter. Clearer.
And while I’m still healing physically, I feel something even deeper: I’m home again — in my body, in my purpose, and in my power.
This journey hasn’t just been about pounds lost. It’s been about identity reclaimed.
And on August 12, 2025, the day I can say goodbye to my neck brace, I’ll be at least 30 pounds light and ready to tackle fitness again.
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🏠 "This Is My House" — A Birthday Reflection at 46
"46 isn’t just a birthday—it’s a breakthrough.
I’m not reflecting on where I’ve been.
I’m standing in who I’ve become.
This is my house. I built it. I own it. And I rise like I belong here."
Read the full birthday reflection → [link in bio]
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By Deryl Richardson | #WatchMeRise
Another year.
Another month.
Another day.
But today? I turn 46.
And for the first time in a long time, I’m not just reflecting on where I’ve been — I’m fully standing in who I’ve become.
This birthday feels different. Not because of the number, but because of the man behind it. I’ve carried so many versions of myself through life. The boy who survived, who showed up for everyone else, who gave more than he received. He was strong. He was resilient. But he was never supposed to stay forever.
This year, I’m letting him rest.
I'm stepping into the man that God created me to be — whole, powerful, and unapologetically rooted in my purpose. No more shrinking. No more proving. No more permission slips.
I dressed up this year, not for attention, but to honor the glow-up I fought for. To remind myself that the healing is the celebration. That the breakthrough is the style. That rising is the reward.
I’ve learned that true growth requires release — of roles, expectations, and old love that can’t reach you anymore. And to those who still don’t know how to love themselves… I see you. But I won’t bend for you.
“I will always love you, but I’ll never expect you to love me when you don’t love yourself.” — Beyoncé, My House
That line sits deep in my spirit. Because I’ve tried to carry others while carrying my own pain. I’ve waited for understanding that never came. But not anymore.
This is my house. I built it. I own it. And I walk through it like I deserve to be here.
So today, I’m not just putting on a show —
I am the show.
I have always been the show.
I will always be the show.
Happy Birthday to me!
🕯️ Journal Prompt for You:
What parts of yourself are ready to rest… so that your next chapter can rise?
✨ Ready to rise with me?
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Silence Isn’t Stuck–It’s Sacred
For most of my life, I’ve lived in noise.
Busy schedules. Loud rooms. Nonstop movement.
People everywhere. Distractions everywhere.
But I realized, that noise was never peace—it was camouflage.
It kept me from hearing what my soul had been whispering all along. My dreams. My fears. My future.
Silence Isn’t Stuck—It’s Sacred
In a therapy session, I was asked a question that hit me harder than I expected:
"What are you afraid of?"
Without even thinking, I said, “Sometimes... I’m afraid of being alone.”
That silence? It can feel loud.
So loud that I can’t hear myself think.
So loud that I confuse it with being stuck.
But my therapist looked at me and gently said:
"Being alone—and the silence it creates—is an opportunity."
And just like that, everything shifted.
For most of my life, I’ve lived in noise.
Busy schedules. Loud rooms. Nonstop movement.
People everywhere. Distractions everywhere.
But I realized, that noise was never peace—it was camouflage.
It kept me from hearing what my soul had been whispering all along.
My dreams. My fears. My future.
When I had ACDF surgery, most people thought it was just a routine procedure. But it wasn’t small for me—it was everything.
Because I was forced to stop. To be still.
To sit face to face with the truth:
If I didn’t make a change, I was going to live with chronic pain, maybe even disability, for the rest of my life.
It wasn’t just physical.
It was emotional. Spiritual. Transformational.
I had to ask myself:
“What tools am I still using that once protected me—but now prevent me from healing?”
And the biggest one?
Being overly independent.
That armor I wore for years?
It didn’t serve me anymore.
I couldn’t do everything alone—not this time.
And that meant facing the question:
Who can I depend on?
The recovery revealed what I needed to know.
Some people disappeared—and that’s okay.
Some people showed up—fully, boldly, quietly—and that’s sacred.
The real ones didn’t ask for credit.
They just ran toward me when I couldn’t walk alone.
That kind of presence can’t be faked.
In March, I was invited by my young friend, David, to see Kylie Minogue perform in Montreal.
But it was her opener, Romy, who cracked my heart wide open.
She sang a song called “Strong” that I didn’t know I needed to hear.
Tears fell before I even realized they were coming.
"You've been strong for so long...
You've learned to carry this on your own.
Let me be someone
You can lean on...
I'm right here…You don’t have to be so strong"
That moment—just like this season—isn’t about being stuck.
It’s about finally hearing what the whispers have been saying.
💭 Journal Prompt:
Where in your life are you still carrying it all alone?
What whispers have you ignored because life got too loud?
And how can you start listening again?
This post pairs with the Healing Through Reinvention journal prompt:
"Learning to Let Go of Old Tools"—available now in the
👉🏾 Watch Me Rise Journal
Sometimes I Have to Water Myself
I spent years hoping someone would see I was parched. I whispered my needs, softened my voice, and made myself small—hoping someone would notice I was running on empty. That love would show up and pour into me.
There’s a quiet truth I’ve learned during recovery: sometimes, I am both the garden and the gardener.
I spent years hoping someone would see I was parched. I whispered my needs, softened my voice, and made myself small—hoping someone would notice I was running on empty. That love would show up and pour into me.
But healing doesn’t always arrive through someone else’s hands.
There are days I walk outside, neck brace on, heart heavy, body aching… and I water my plants. Slowly. Silently. Tenderly. And in that moment, I realize—I’m really watering myself.
I’m showing up for myself.
I’m choosing softness.
I’m making space for peace.
This is what rising looks like when no one is clapping.
It’s what healing sounds like when the world is loud, but you choose quiet anyway.
If you’re in a season of becoming, I hope you remember: the most beautiful things grow in silence.
Even you.
💭 Journal Prompt:
Where in your life have you been waiting for someone else to pour into you? How can you begin to water yourself today?
👉🏾 This reflection pairs with the Healing Through Reinvention journal prompt “Pouring from a Full Cup”—available now inside the Watch Me Rise Journal.
Take your time.
Breathe through it.
And if you’re ready, write your way through it.
They Saw Me. They Looked Away. I kept Rising.
A personal reflection on what it means to rise even when you're unseen. This post explores the discomfort others may feel in the face of your healing—and why your journey still matters. For anyone who's ever felt overlooked, this is your reminder: you're still rising. #WatchMeRise
Some people saw me—but they chose to look away.
Maybe my healing was too loud for their silence. Maybe my growth made them uncomfortable. Maybe the version of me that was learning to speak up, set boundaries, and shine was too unfamiliar for those who were comfortable with the older, quieter version of me.
But I didn’t stop. I won’t stop. I didn’t shrink. I won’t shrink.
I kept rising. And I will continue to rise.
This journey—this healing, this becoming—isn't just about reclaiming my voice. It's about rewriting the rules of how I allow others to treat me. It’s about honoring the parts of me I used to hide, water down, or silence for the comfort of others.
This post isn’t just about me. It’s a reminder for anyone who’s ever felt unseen, overlooked, or unsupported:
You’re still rising.
Even when they pretend not to see you. Even when they don't clap. Even when your growth makes others uncomfortable.
You are still rising.
And that matters.
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When Friendship Fails the Test
Some friendships aren’t meant to last forever. Here’s what I learned when silence spoke louder than words. #WatchMeRise
By Deryl Richardson
There’s something I’ve learned during recovery that hits harder than the pain itself: what people say when you’re in crisis—and what they actually do—are rarely the same.
So many people say, “You’re in my thoughts and prayers,” and honestly, that’s good enough. It’s kind. It’s real. It’s human.
But what’s not okay is when people say more than they mean.
“Let me know what you need.”
“I got you.”
“You know I’m here.”
But when I did let them know… nothing. No follow-through. No check-ins. No help. Just excuses or worse–silence.That’s not kindness. That’s character exposure.
Distance should never be an excuse for absence.
If you claim someone as a friend, and they tell you they need support—even if they’re in a different city—you show up in whatever way you can. That’s what friendship is. You don’t add disclaimers like, “If you were in my city, I’d help.” No, you wouldn’t. If convenience is your condition, that’s not friendship. That’s performance.
The truth is, some people were never really friends to begin with. They were just familiar faces in familiar places. But healing exposes that. Silence exposes that. Recovery makes it impossible to pretend.
This season has revealed something powerful:
I used to think friendship was about proximity. But now I know—it’s about presence. And presence isn’t about being in the room. It’s about being in someone’s life when it matters most.
I’m not bitter. I’m better.
Better because I see clearly now.
Better because I finally stopped excusing people who didn’t show up.
Better because I know what real support feels like—and what it doesn’t.
This is part of the rise.
This is how I reclaim my peace.
Not with anger, but with clarity.
So to those who disappeared: I release you.
And to those who stayed: thank you.
This story is mine now.
And I’m telling it—out loud.
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What Real Support Looks Like–And What It Doesn’t
Not all support is real. Some of it’s performance. Some of it disappears when you need it most. In this personal reflection, I unpack what healing taught me about people, pain, and showing up. #WatchMeRise
This post started as an Instagram reflection — but it’s really a journal entry for anyone who’s ever felt abandoned during hard seasons.
In the wake of my surgery and healing journey, I’ve seen firsthand the difference between people who show up out of love and those who disappear out of convenience.
Support isn’t just about being present when it's easy.
It’s about being present when it's inconvenient.
It’s action — not empty "thoughts and prayers" with no intention behind them.
After surgery, I learned that some people were only “supportive” when the spotlight was on me. But when the silence set in, so did their absence.
Real support checks in without needing to be reminded.
It doesn’t just check the box — it checks on you.
I’ve learned that true support feels safe. It’s quiet, it’s consistent, and it doesn’t always need to be public.
It simply says: “I’m here. Even now.”
I’m not writing this out of bitterness.
I’m writing it because someone out there needs the reminder:
You weren’t crazy for feeling let down.
I felt it too.
But I also found new people — unexpected ones — who made me feel deeply seen.
Those are the ones I’m building with.
Those are the ones I’m healing with.
💬 “Support isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s quiet, consistent presence. That’s what saved me.”
This was just one chapter of my healing.
If it spoke to you, you’re not alone.